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The name is PAULA, indonesian
a normal teenage girl with enormous dreams, and world to take on!
Living an extraordinaire life, with a dash of excitement each day
perfectly-imperfect
creme-brulee addicts
loving the smell of rains
Believes shopping is the ultimate painkiller
u never know when u gotta stop -- i haven't figured it out by myself, it's a disease


Eco-friendly :)
wanting the earth to be green
obsessed with the natural stuffs , oh and organics !
believes that the earth could be better if we wanna change it to be better
The earth is just not a dead thing u can claim.

I ♥ :
GOD, Mom+Dad, Step Up, Anna Sui, Bowling, Gossip Girl (CW), Vanilla ice cream, Alex Pettyfer, Adobe Photoshop, Christmas, SUMMER, Maroon 5, Colby Cailliat, DVDs, Piano, Flute, Violin, Cello, smell of rains

Friends are the best! <3



1. Gossip Girl season 4
2. Going back to the States
3. Get into an ivy-league uni
4. More hours in a day

This week is just a pure torture school has barely started like a week ago after a not-too-long holiday.
And my teachers just didnt hv any mercy for us, the students.
They keep bombarding us with works, assignments, and tests.
Not to mention with the whole practical exam stuffs, oh, and national exam too.
University entrance exam too.
Gee, so many things just keep on coming, arent they?
i'll pass out soon at this rate.

So there's a question that a friend mentioned to me on twitter
here's the question:


A: Here's my answer for ya babe ;)

First of all, have u ever realised that being close together, u cant help but feel lonely eventhough he's only gone for, let's say, 5 minutes?
Loneliness is a part of the relationship i guess.
Everyone does feel lonely..
I bet u're missing him like crazy, like "I miss those times i spend with him", "I really miss him that I cant even think straight", "When can I see him again".

U know, i do feel lonely too. Especially when me n my bf are like thousand miles apart. on different continents. different time zone.
Yes, I complained sometimes. But who am I to do that? I cant be that selfish eventhough I want too.
I believe that when u're going on a relationship with a guy, u just didnt only change ur relationship stats but also accepting the consequences that comes with it.
Leaving u is not an option that he wouldnt choose if he could.

Just be patient, thats my advice.
That day when u meet him is getting closer.
just remember the clock is ticking, in just no time u'll see him again :)

Oh and dont forget to always communicate.
I strongly believe that communication is the crucial part of LDR.
therefore, dont ever lose contact.
If u're busy, u can just send a text message, chat for a while, or email-- in my case.

Well, i hope my advise can help u.
Just wrote this based on my experience.

Ciao,

Paula


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